Why women do cruel things to men

1. They don't pick up the phone
While men feel good as they manage to take the girls' phone number, the girls often give them a fake number or don't pick up the call.

 2. Use men for free drinks
Some women go out never planning to spend any of their own money on drinks at the bar or club. Instead, they count on their feminine wiles to convince guys to shell out for their libations. While some of them might begin to get to know him, the cruel and heartless ones will take that drink, flirt a little and move on.

 3. Use men as placeholders
 If she is a decent person, she'll just get it over with and dump the boy, but if she's cruel, she'll hold on to him for a while until somebody new comes along. These girls don't like to be alone and without a relationship, so instead of putting you out of your misery and ending it, she'll string you along until she meets someone to replace you.

 4. Emotionally manipulate men
 Men don't like to see women cry and some cruel women take advantage of the fact and use it to get what they want. A few tears would make men do anything to get it to stop.

 5. Use physical violence
While men hitting girls are often termed nasty, some cruel women feel it's perfectly acceptable to hit their boyfriends, as he would never hit her back. This type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind physical pain on him without fear of repercussion.

 6. Criticize their men in public
Cruel women criticize and humiliate their men in public places. They often poke fun at her man or even soundly debase him.

7. They don't disclose their relationship status
  It's certainly not the worst thing a woman could do to a man, but it is annoying when she's already in a relationship and lets you assume that she's available so that she can enjoy the man's flirtation and flattery.

 8. They withhold sex
 This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective.

 9. They test their men
You're all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn't have any particular reason; she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you'd come over to her place instead. If her request comes with an "if you really loved me," then it's a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you're going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty.

10. They flirt to inspire jealousy
Maybe she's feeling underappreciated, maybe you've just had a big fight or maybe she just enjoys the tortured look on your face. For whatever reason, girls who flirt obviously with other guys in front of their boyfriends are immature and manipulative.

Things to keep in mind when you ask her out

Things to keep in mind when you ask her out

Women are sticklers for remembering ‘perfect’ moments and stuff like the first date,

the way the guy asked her out, what he spoke about during the first date, the way he looked at her will be etched in their memory forever. To use a cliché, first impression is the last impression and it is the one that lasts the longest. So don’t simply walk up to a girl and ask her out like you’d ask your buddy for beer; do it with elegance and like a gentleman. But before you ask a lady out, you need to keep certain things in mind. What follows is a concise list that you need to check before you proceed to ask her out.

1. Be polite / Ask, don’t tell

You need to have a soft / polite tone when you ask a girl out. Please avoid sounding cocky; an overtly aggressive and brashly confident tone will not only ensure that you come across as a git but it will lower your chances considerably. Also don’t tell her she needs to go out on a date with you, ask her if she’d like to accompany a gentleman like you on a date. Using the right words and using them in a dignified manner will get you that first date.

2. Don’t over-promise

In a bid to get her to go out with you, don’t make the common error of over-promising and exaggerating through the roof. It is good to boast and build expectations, but it is suicidal to raise her hopes and then under deliver.

3. Keep her schedule & likes/dislikes in mind

While you may think that Saturday night is perfect date night, ensure that she has no other plans that evening and would be interested in going out during the weekend. Be sensitive to her likes / dislikes and suggest a venue that she would feel comfortable in and enjoy. Try finding a venue that has a soothing ambiance; one which allows you to wine and dine in style & at ease.

4. Need for Secrecy

Not all women like the world to know that they are going on a date. So be sensitive to her need for privacy and don’t brag to the world about landing a date with a beautiful lady. This display of immaturity will turn her off and she in turn might just call the date off.

The Right Way to Flirt on the Phone

flirt on phone

All men not only want to get the ladies to go on a first date with them , but to keep them hooked after the date is long over and get them begging for more before the date has even started. Now, the trick to getting any girl totally latched onto you is by getting her to listen to every word you say. And for her to want to listen to you, you have to master some simple guidelines that enable you to Flirt the Right Way on the Phone.

1. The Voice

A soothing voice can truly calm and enchant a woman. When talking on the phone, don’t yell, shout, and talk too fast or too slow. Maintain the pace and keep your voice soft and gentle at all times. As long as your voice soothes her nerves, she will never want to disconnect the line.

2. Talk clean

You want her to like you, so don’t talk ‘dirty’ right away. That will just freak her out and get her thinking that you are some creep from weirdo-land. Talk naughty, and flirty; tease her once a while. For example: ‘I wonder if are twirling your hair with your fingers right now. I love it when you do that’. A simple statement like that will get her to have a soft spot for you right away.

3. Don’t patronize, instead Please

All women love to be flattered. Flatter her voice, compliment her dressing sense, and praise her hairstyle. More often than not, such good gestures from you will be appreciated to be only followed by some odd question. Like, ‘Which actress do you find the sexiest?’ or ‘Do you think so-and-so is beautiful?’ These, gentlemen, are trick questions. Relax. Breathe. Don’t falter. And most importantly don’t give cheesy answers. Be honest. Let her know that while you are going ga-ga over her beauty, you do have genuine appreciation for

other beautiful women. This way she’ll know you are a man with an opinion of your own; a man she won’t be able to resist.

4. Sweet Nothings

Hun, Babe, Baby, Darling, Doll, Sweety, Love are not just common nouns. They are the most effective and powerful sweet nothings to please a girl with. Use these in sentences as often as you’d use conjunctions and prepositions and she is bound to get all dooey eyed. (Dating, MensXP.com)

Rules of office romance

Office Romance

To navigate through potentially delicate situations at your workplace, read on...

Do: Keep your work separate from personal issues
It is very difficult to separate office issues from personal ones when both the partners are working in the same organization. It takes two mature people to understand this and not let emotions affect your work performance.

Don't: Broadcast your relationship
Even though you might not like it, it's best to keep things quiet for as long as you can and maintain a professional relationship at work. Believe it or not, you will become the topic of discussion in the office if you're not careful.

Do: Be sure it ends amicably
When you split, it can be extremely dirty if things are not handled properly. Since both of you will be in the same workplace. You will be seeing each other regularly and it can become highly uncomfortable.

Don't: Mix business with pleasure
Don't misuse your relationship to get ahead professionally. You don't want to be tagged as the 'office slut'. For as much as you may try to keep an office romance under wraps, word does get around. And if things don't work out, unfortunately the tag will still remain.

Do: Date someone of equal status
One cannot deny the fact that power dynamics exist in the workplace. People are bound to talk if you get involved with a superior. And if you get a raise or a promotion, the only thing that will come to their mind will be that you were favored more than the others for certain reasons.

Don't: Make out or getting physical in the office premises
Public displays of affection in office are a no-no. Not only does it blacklist you as unprofessional, it also can be very embarrassing.

10 Things notice by girls in boys

If you want to get notice by a girls around you so remember what girls notice in you (Boys).This will help you when you go out and help you .

There are lots of things that is notices by a girls in boys

If you want good friends then lots of thing is required to keep in mind lets start from the top of body part what girls notice in boys

(1)Good hair style : Always take care of your hair style because lots of impressions depends on your hair style so always keep good hair style.

(2)Eyes: make good contact with girls and don't move your eyes every where because girls feel bad and cheep kind of boys if you moves your eyes every where .

(3)Smile : keep good and lovely smile on your face

(4)Dressing Style : Always wear clean and good clothes its always matter if you are studs then ok every things looks good on you but its happen only in movies

(5)Mouth freshener : There are lots of boys they don't know that to bad smell are coming from there mouth so before you go to meet any girls put some mouth freshener in your mouth

(6)Body Language : Always behave like a simple no need of show of in front of girls always be simple


(7)Shake hands : girls also notice how you shake hand

(8)Shoes: wear good shoes and keep clean

(9)Sense on humor : can't explain it my words so be smart

(10)Voice : Girls like man with good voice i mean heavy voice