Things to keep in mind when you ask her out

Things to keep in mind when you ask her out

Women are sticklers for remembering ‘perfect’ moments and stuff like the first date,

the way the guy asked her out, what he spoke about during the first date, the way he looked at her will be etched in their memory forever. To use a cliché, first impression is the last impression and it is the one that lasts the longest. So don’t simply walk up to a girl and ask her out like you’d ask your buddy for beer; do it with elegance and like a gentleman. But before you ask a lady out, you need to keep certain things in mind. What follows is a concise list that you need to check before you proceed to ask her out.

1. Be polite / Ask, don’t tell

You need to have a soft / polite tone when you ask a girl out. Please avoid sounding cocky; an overtly aggressive and brashly confident tone will not only ensure that you come across as a git but it will lower your chances considerably. Also don’t tell her she needs to go out on a date with you, ask her if she’d like to accompany a gentleman like you on a date. Using the right words and using them in a dignified manner will get you that first date.

2. Don’t over-promise

In a bid to get her to go out with you, don’t make the common error of over-promising and exaggerating through the roof. It is good to boast and build expectations, but it is suicidal to raise her hopes and then under deliver.

3. Keep her schedule & likes/dislikes in mind

While you may think that Saturday night is perfect date night, ensure that she has no other plans that evening and would be interested in going out during the weekend. Be sensitive to her likes / dislikes and suggest a venue that she would feel comfortable in and enjoy. Try finding a venue that has a soothing ambiance; one which allows you to wine and dine in style & at ease.

4. Need for Secrecy

Not all women like the world to know that they are going on a date. So be sensitive to her need for privacy and don’t brag to the world about landing a date with a beautiful lady. This display of immaturity will turn her off and she in turn might just call the date off.