The Right Way to Flirt on the Phone

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All men not only want to get the ladies to go on a first date with them , but to keep them hooked after the date is long over and get them begging for more before the date has even started. Now, the trick to getting any girl totally latched onto you is by getting her to listen to every word you say. And for her to want to listen to you, you have to master some simple guidelines that enable you to Flirt the Right Way on the Phone.

1. The Voice

A soothing voice can truly calm and enchant a woman. When talking on the phone, don’t yell, shout, and talk too fast or too slow. Maintain the pace and keep your voice soft and gentle at all times. As long as your voice soothes her nerves, she will never want to disconnect the line.

2. Talk clean

You want her to like you, so don’t talk ‘dirty’ right away. That will just freak her out and get her thinking that you are some creep from weirdo-land. Talk naughty, and flirty; tease her once a while. For example: ‘I wonder if are twirling your hair with your fingers right now. I love it when you do that’. A simple statement like that will get her to have a soft spot for you right away.

3. Don’t patronize, instead Please

All women love to be flattered. Flatter her voice, compliment her dressing sense, and praise her hairstyle. More often than not, such good gestures from you will be appreciated to be only followed by some odd question. Like, ‘Which actress do you find the sexiest?’ or ‘Do you think so-and-so is beautiful?’ These, gentlemen, are trick questions. Relax. Breathe. Don’t falter. And most importantly don’t give cheesy answers. Be honest. Let her know that while you are going ga-ga over her beauty, you do have genuine appreciation for

other beautiful women. This way she’ll know you are a man with an opinion of your own; a man she won’t be able to resist.

4. Sweet Nothings

Hun, Babe, Baby, Darling, Doll, Sweety, Love are not just common nouns. They are the most effective and powerful sweet nothings to please a girl with. Use these in sentences as often as you’d use conjunctions and prepositions and she is bound to get all dooey eyed. (Dating, MensXP.com)

Rules of office romance

Office Romance

To navigate through potentially delicate situations at your workplace, read on...

Do: Keep your work separate from personal issues
It is very difficult to separate office issues from personal ones when both the partners are working in the same organization. It takes two mature people to understand this and not let emotions affect your work performance.

Don't: Broadcast your relationship
Even though you might not like it, it's best to keep things quiet for as long as you can and maintain a professional relationship at work. Believe it or not, you will become the topic of discussion in the office if you're not careful.

Do: Be sure it ends amicably
When you split, it can be extremely dirty if things are not handled properly. Since both of you will be in the same workplace. You will be seeing each other regularly and it can become highly uncomfortable.

Don't: Mix business with pleasure
Don't misuse your relationship to get ahead professionally. You don't want to be tagged as the 'office slut'. For as much as you may try to keep an office romance under wraps, word does get around. And if things don't work out, unfortunately the tag will still remain.

Do: Date someone of equal status
One cannot deny the fact that power dynamics exist in the workplace. People are bound to talk if you get involved with a superior. And if you get a raise or a promotion, the only thing that will come to their mind will be that you were favored more than the others for certain reasons.

Don't: Make out or getting physical in the office premises
Public displays of affection in office are a no-no. Not only does it blacklist you as unprofessional, it also can be very embarrassing.