How painful it is to get attracted to a girl and find out that she already has a boyfriend. But what if she develops interest in you without you even proposing her? Yes it’s possible but only when you follow the right strategy.The first step is to get close to her. How? You need to make some personal contact with her. It can be something like sitting next to her in office or if you don’t work together then you can visit her frequently. Meet her during lunch time or chat with her online, call her for work etc. But don’t let her know your intentions. Show her your innocence and keep the process a little slow so that the connection is developed over a period of time and not suddenly. If you feel she is just not interested in you, then just leave her path and move on in life.
Keep flirting with her while chatting online or face to face. Girls generally like guys with good sense of humour. So make sure you make her laugh and keep her interested in your talks. The connection should be such that when you initiate chat or face to face conversation, she is unable to avoid you.
Keep telling her playfully that you want to make her your girlfriend. For example, say, “I wish you were my girlfriend! Then I would have asked you to stay back with me with full rights.” She will laugh on it but she will think about it later. Make yourself someone important in her life.
While trying to get close to her, remember not to enter her friend zone. Therefore it is important to keep telling her how much you like her (but playfully). Do not become the best friend who offers his shoulder to cry on but the one who never makes her cry. You can even say this to her, “I don’t want to be the one who wipes your tears, I want to be the one who will never make you cry.” Remember not to show your feelings always. She must enjoy your company, if you show your emotional side to her, she will get confused between you and her boyfriend and eventually she may start ignoring you.
Now you have to make your move, smart move. Try saying something negative about your ex-girlfriend, like “I just hated it when she was jealous of my female friends….I am so happy I no longer have to face her possessiveness….” She will be forced to think about her partner if he behaves in the same way. If she shows some unusual expressions, ask her what’s wrong. Convince her that you will not cross your limits. She might end up sharing similar problem with you. But if she is too happy with her boyfriend, she might defend your ex-girlfriend.
Do not show aggressiveness and politely tell her how the nature of your ex-girlfriend hampered your progress, your career. Do not expect her to react immediately. Give her some time to analyze her boyfriend. She will definitely think about it. So just wait and watch.
Be friends with her good friends and make them like you. Once they become your fans, they might ask the girl to get hooked with you. Remember suggestions from friends are always taken seriously.
Once she analyses her relationship and becomes more close to you, she is likely to break-up from her boyfriend and come to you. But here is a warning- If she could leave her boyfriend for you, she might leave you as well for someone else. Just be careful.
4 comments:
well nice to know how to date a girl who has a boyfriend but dear tell me one thing arent you teaching boys how to cheat there girlfiends as well coz many of them will try to do such things or will try to take the advantage of ur this information and arent you trying to brake the relations of couples who are in love humm what do y say
Dear harry this article is not only for guys it also for girls so if u think in other way m also alerting girls hmmmmm
Harry and Shikha, Both are helpless, in fact nobody can help.
Even, if the girl knows that the boy is flirting, she can't get away from him, because flirting is joyous for both. And, if boy knows clearly that the girl is cheating him then to he can't leave her.
Sometimes "unlearning(not learning) is better than learning", even if both boy n girl are aware of this fact, they are helpless.
so, not being aware of this fact is helpful to the masses.
this article will help only for a few, creates problem for plenty.
this article provokes boys and girls to exploit each other.
after reading this article, there is a possibility that, even a real love will be mistaken and misinterpreted.
this article seem to be it is creating awareness in both boys and girls, but it is not doing so, it is giving Ideas of exploitation.
wrong intelligence is always harmful,intelligent people are miserable, only intelligent people suicide.
Love happens only with innocence, there is no room for intelligent to love, love wont happen with intelligent, if it happens, it is just a fore play.
this article is against all the is Good, agains all that has to be Good in between a boy and girl, it is against Love.
-kartavirya
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