how to chat with a girl

So – let’s say you add a girl to your friends on Facebook, and she accepts your Friends Request. Great! An accepted Friends Request is a good sign. Most girls will ignore you if they never met you in real life before. But more about getting your friends request accepted later. Now that you’re friends, you might be wondering what the hell should you do next?

Send her a message. Or try to initiate contact in some other form – and observe how she reacts. But, even better – before you do anything – wait a day or two after she’s accepted your Friends Request. In case she initiates contact first – you’ve got another sign that she’s interested. Remember: Girls that don’t give a fuck about you – would NOT contact you. They would simply ignore your existence.

On the other hand, if she makes no contact – you should make a move. You have a better chance at scoring if you shoot than if you do nothing. Keep in mind though that it’s pointless to chase after a girl that isn’t interested in you. So make it your goal to figure out whether she’s interested AT ALL. Yes – theoretically you CAN change her opinion about you even if she doesn’t like you on a first impression, but it’s much easier to pick up a girl on Facebook that’s already interested in you to a certain extent. Anyway – make contact. Don’t poke her, or comment on her picture with a retarded compliment. That’s what 99% of other chumps do. And being the same as everyone else won’t help you get noticed.

A simple way to start talking to a girl on Facebook is to send her a message when she gets on Facebook’s Chat. Try with a smiley, or just a hello – see how she reacts. “Do I know you?” – “No, I guess, but you seemed interesting so I thought I’d add you  ”, and let the ball start rolling. Since she’ll probably start checking out your Facebook profile now – she’ll make a decision whether you’re worth getting to know better or not. That’s why it’s important that you have your profile set up in a way that conveys positive stuff about you. You want to have a profile that will make girls WONDER. You have to make them feel like they want to find out more about you. Put in some mystery, intrigue etc. be UNIQUE in a positive way – not a clown kind of way.

So – let’s say she reacts positively and starts talking to you. What are you going to talk about? Talking with Facebook girls isn’t as complicated as it might seem right now. Here’s a simple tip: DO SOMETHING. “Do something?” Yes – do SOMETHING. Anything with your life. If you sit at home and do nothing – you’ll have nothing to talk about. The best way to have what to talk about with girls is by having something going on in your life. No – your JOB is NOT interesting (except if you’re a surfer or whatever the hell) – don’t BRAG about what you have and stop TRYING to be cool. Be real. Real works. If you have a dog – and she asks you “what have you been doing lately?”, you reply with a “I just got home from walking my dog, and now I’m chilling at home a bit, studying… you?”.

She’ll immediately ask you what kind of a dog do you have etc. and if she likes dogs to – there – you’ll have something to talk about and connect on a better level.